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to hate or not to hate your job |
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by Julie Kang
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Friday, June 12, 2009 10:55 AM |
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Below are responses to “When should you leave a job you hate?” from some of my trusted advisors. There is a wealth of information here. Opinions differ; however, each person offers a unique perspective and great advice. I will summarize various points in the next blog – especially for those experiencing this dilemma. WHEN SHOULD YOU LEAVE A JOB YOU HATE? Now. Don’t delay. Write your resignation and give it to your boss this minute. Life is too short to be unhappy in the place you spend most of your waking hours, Monday through Friday.
Okay, so there is rent to pay and food to put on the table. Quitting right now isn’t possible. I get that, but start your job search immediately. The sooner you start, the sooner you can make a change. Update your resume, think about what kind of position you really want, and activate your network. Call your friends, former colleagues and classmates, and any recruiters whose numbers you’ve collected over the years. Statistics indicate that 70% of all jobs are filled through networking so put your initial energy there and get to the Internet sites later.
You’ll find that just taking these initial steps will make you feel better. Being in a bad relationship (as Julie described it) is stressful; it makes you a victim and you can feel powerless. Taking action to correct your situation is an empowering move, and putting energy into the universe starts to pay dividends almost immediately. You’ll find you have more energy and even your miserable job will feel incrementally more tolerable.
So stop reading and act! Every day you delay is another day of being unhappy, and who needs that? - CEO Interview often as if you have nothing to lose. Why?... |
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when should you leave a job you hate? |
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by Julie Kang
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Thursday, June 11, 2009 02:53 PM |
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My friend Sharon has been working for a company that she hates for over 2 years. I’m not sure if “hate” is strong enough to describe her feelings towards her employer. She often experiences anxiety attacks on Sunday nights when thinking about Monday mornings. Why does she stay? For the same reason some women stay with boyfriends they don’t really like. They would rather be in an unhappy relationship than be alone. Moreover, the thought of dating and looking for another guy is overwhelming. This reminds me of a scene in When Harry Met Sally. Sally’s best friend turns to her husband and says “Tell me I’ll never have to be out there again” when she hears about Sally’s dating woes.
People generally do not like uncertainty. Even if they dread going to work, they prefer the miserable certainly over the unknown. And searching for a job is like dating. You don’t know if you’ll find the right company that will hire you, just as you don’t know if you’ll find Mr. Right. Fear prevents you from making a change. So what do you do?... |
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can't wait to share this with you |
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by Julie Kang
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Thursday, June 11, 2009 11:16 AM |
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My mind was racing with ideas last night. So much that I did not even sleep for an hour. But, because I'm insanely excited about a new series HeelsConnect will soon introduce, I'm full of energy (I'm sure I'll crash some time later). On Monday, June, 15th, I'll unveil the latest product HeelsConnect will offer; you will love it - no doubt. Please mark your calendar! |
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can you relate to rhonda? |
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by Julie Kang
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Tuesday, June 09, 2009 08:20 PM |
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My dear friend Rhonda wrote the following after reading the blogs about Gabrielle Bernstein. What I love about Rhonda is that she is not afraid to be honest and vulnerable. I admire her persistence in finding a career that will make her HAPPY. As simple as it sounds, other priorities often overshadow happiness when searching for jobs. Rhonda is extremely talented, very articulate, and most of all, just her fabulous self. She is a loving, caring friend, and I have no doubt that there is a spectacular opportunity awaiting her; it is just a matter of time. Some of you will relate to Rhonda’s story. Please
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if you want to share yours and/or if you want to send Rhonda a response. by Rhonda Rayman
Where do I begin?! I’ve had jobs since I was 11 but starting at the age of 18, I worked for Nordstrom Café for about 2 years. I then had a series of restaurant jobs and dropped out of college entirely to pursue acting. While I was driving from Orange County to Hollywood 3 times a week for acting classes, I decided to go to massage school as well so that I could do that instead of wait tables while I was pursuing an acting career. At the age of 21, I started a job waiting tables for The Improv in Brea while I also did massage for chiropractors and continued to study acting, so much for not waiting tables.
I continued to work for the Improv for nearly 4 years because it was just an awesome job to have when you’re in your early twenties and trying to make it in the entertainment field. Meanwhile, I never stopped doing massage on the side and built up a private practice. Around the age of 25, I had what is now commonly called a quarter life crisis.... |
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q&a with gabrielle bernstein |
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by Julie Kang
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Thursday, June 04, 2009 10:03 PM |
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Q. When was your ah ha! moment that led you to where you are now?
A. I have had many aha moments in my life – one was on October 2, 2005 when I realized that there was more to life than being an entrepreneur who could get into any nightclub. I totally changed my life internally and externally. I have never been the same. That day I decided to stop seeking happiness on the outside and go in.
Q. What is the most consistent barrier/challenge individuals face when trying to accomplish a goal? And what strategies do you teach them to apply?
A. Fear of not being good enough is what blocks people from accomplishing goals. The best tool I suggest is to let yourself feel the fear until a sense of relief comes over you. Upon feeling the relief chose a loving thought that is the opposite from the fear. The loving thought becomes an affirmation that you can use throughout your day. If your fearful mind says you’re not good enough to get a new job, reverse the thought to: I believe in myself and there is a job out there for me
Q. When you start coaching someone, what is the first step?
A. The first step in the coaching process is to assess... |
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