| “how to leave a job you hate” |
| by Julie Kang |
| Wednesday, September 09, 2009 09:10 AM |
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…is a phrase that has come up more than a few times on the HeelsConnect.com site analytics report. When people place that EXACT phrase into a search engine, they land on HeelsConnect.com because I’ve addressed this topic in previous blogs. And I'm addressing it again - for those who are experiencing this awful dilemma.
I’m not so naïve to think that it’s easy to land another job, or that it’s possible for everyone to quit without securing another position first. I'm not even suggesting that you quit every time things become challenging at work; that's a different story. I do, however, know that sometimes you have to weigh the cost and benefit of staying in a job that is negatively impacting your life. It’s similar to staying in a relationship that you clearly know should end – now or later. Once you get over the initial breakup pain, you always reflect back and say “why didn’t I leave sooner?” Same goes for the company that you need to break up with – now or later – better to do it now. she made the difficult choice to quit prior to landing another job.
I’m happy to report that Yvette is a MUCH happier person even though she is unemployed. She’s determined to find the right fit – not just run to the next available opportunity. So she’s incurring debt during this period. It’s not ideal but it sure beats the alternative – making money but being miserable If fear is paralyzing you from taking action to achieve professional bliss, it’s time to toughen up and start strategizing. EMPOWER yourself by first believing that you are capable of finding a job that will engage you. Do you know how great it is to actually wake up and look forward to working? (If you don’t, that should tell you something!) It can and does make you a happier person even when you’re not at work. Your overall quality of life improves. Are you ready to gain control over your life?
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